Why I Do This Work

For 30 years, I was caught in a cycle I couldn’t break — hiding behind screens, losing myself to porn, and feeling like I’d never get out. It started when I was just six years old, a moment that changed everything. What followed was decades of secrecy, shame, and a life that felt more like surviving than living.

But eventually, I hit a point where pretending everything was fine wasn’t working anymore. I had to get real with myself, face the man in the mirror, and decide if I was going to keep hiding or finally start rebuilding.

That’s why I do this work. Because I know what it feels like to live in that dark, lonely place — and I also know what it takes to climb out of it.

Think You’re the Only One?

My story isn’t unique. Maybe that’s why I decided to tell it. Because for years, I felt like the only one living a double life — the man everyone thought they knew and the man I was behind closed doors. The shame, the guilt, the fear of being found out — it became my normal.

But eventually, I realized I wasn’t the only one. There were other men out there, feeling the same way, going through the same cycles, telling themselves the same lies. And the more I started talking about it, the more I saw how powerful it was to name it, face it, and start taking steps to rebuild.

That’s what led me to write Chained to My Screen — a book that tells the raw, unfiltered truth about my journey. And that’s what led me to create The Rebuild — a program designed for men who are ready to stop hiding, get honest, and do the work to reclaim their lives.

What I Want for You

If you’re tired of living a double life, if you’re ready to stop hiding and start rebuilding, let’s talk. Whether it’s one-on-one mentorship, the 100-day program, or simply a conversation to get started — I’m here.

You don’t have to do this alone.

Real Stories. Real Change.

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 Mark R.

I didn’t realize how much I was hiding until I went through The Rebuild. It wasn’t just about quitting porn — it was about finally facing the man in the mirror. I feel like I got my life back.

Liam S.

I used to think I was strong enough to handle it on my own. Turns out, real strength was admitting I needed help. The one-on-one mentorship kept me grounded when everything else felt like it was falling apart.

Patrick L.

Jon doesn’t sugarcoat anything. He calls it like he sees it, and that’s exactly what I needed. The Rebuild isn’t some feel-good program — it’s a real wake-up call. 
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